Looking at profiles

The following tip is actually feedback from a member who has shared their experience:

“I now realise that you cannot tell from the profile what the person is really like – everything that they wrote about themself was broadly true on paper, but on meeting, it did not really describe the real person at all – because of all that they did not put in the profile, (and there is nothing wrong in that).

However, I realise this can work in the opposite way too – the person may be much more what you are looking for than they seem on paper. So I shall follow up some of the April profiles and leave it in God’s hands.”

We encourage you to make the most of your friendsfirst membership by being proactive and contacting as many people as possible. It’s great to have feedback which reinforces the advice we give and I hope this inspires you to contact more people and make more friends.